What to expect with your gown
Finding the perfect wedding gown and bridesmaids' attire is not as easy as it may seem. Consider this down-to-earth advice to avoid a few headaches during the adventure we call planning a wedding.
Many a would-be bride is so swept up with emotions concerning her wedding, she makes some mistakes and has common misconceptions about the big day.
Information overload.
If you've bought every bridal magazine on the newsstands, you'll soon take in more information than you can handle. Limit yourself to a few periodicals. This will help prevent paging through hundreds of styles of gowns and having trouble deciding on one. And don't start browsing too early. If your wedding is two years away, styles will likely change between now and then, and some lines may be discontinued.
Lack of flexibility.
When you have some general ideas of what you like, don't head into the store with your heart set on one particular gown; unless you're built like Heidi Klum or Tyra Banks, how a gown looks on the pictured model may not always be the way it looks on you. Be open to trying a variety of cuts and styles - even ones you hadn't considered. You may be surprised that the lacy number you thought you'd avoid is the perfect gown for you.
The big squeeze.
Bridal stores often are stocked with samples in a few sizes, unless they cater to a specific group, such as plus sizes. Don't expect to fit perfectly into the gowns you try on. While that does make it more difficult to get an accurate picture of how you will look in the gown, remember that if you like the general style of the gown, it will look that much better in your size.
Sticker shock.
We're not talking about price here, ladies. Major trauma can occur when you and your bridesmaids learn about bridal gown sizing charts. Don't expect your gown to be the size you wear in ordinary clothing. Customarily, these gowns are cut smaller, and you'll probably order a gown a few sizes larger than your normal size. For example, if you wear a 10, depending upon the designer, you may need to order a 14 or 16. These sizes are based upon your hip, waist and bust measurements, and then they're compared to the sizing chart for that manufacturer. It's better to have a dress that's too large rather than one that is too small. That way, the gown can be altered to fit you perfectly.
Alterations will definitely be needed for you and members of the bridal party. Stressing the importance of fittings will help things go smoothly.
Taking measurements
A member of the store staff will take your measurements and order the closest-size dress. Keep in mind that plus-size dresses may require an additional charge. A deposit is usually required at the time of ordering.
First fitting
Bring to your fitting the undergarments, particularly the bra, and shoes that are similar in height to the ones you will wear on the wedding day. A seamstress will decide where alterations need to be made. Be sure to speak up about anything that is uncomfortable, or changes you would like to make. Remember that straps can be made wider, hems can be shortened and tops can be taken in. Major alterations that involve adding fabric may require an additional cost.
Next appointment
Depending upon the alterations, a follow-up appointment will be set for a few weeks later. At this time, you'll see how the gown fits after the alterations have been completed. It is essential to have your wedding day shoes at this time to ensure that the length of your gown is just right. At this time, if everything fits, your dress will be steamed and you can take it home. If additional work needs to be done, another appointment will be necessary.
