Making beautiful music
Music is a major part of your wedding and should be planned and selected carefully. Music helps create the atmosphere, while special songs will make the wedding uniquely your own.
How do you choose music for the wedding ceremony and reception? Take these tips into consideration.
Processional
The music should start about half an hour before the ceremony. Usually, instrumental music is used to set the mood, with a solo sung just after the mother of the bride is seated. This lets people know the processional is about to begin. The processional will usually begin with an instrumental composition, sometimes a solo that provides a good, regular beat for walking up the aisle. The second part is a separate, stately selection for the bride's entrance, traditionally Wagner's "Wedding March."
Remember, a wonderful variety of music is available. Think about combinations of instruments, such as harps and violins. You are not limited to a soloist or organist.
The ceremony
Vocal solos are traditional favorites and often accompany the signing of the bridal registrar, the service of Holy Communion or the lighting of the unity candle. Popular music has been used in wedding ceremonies for generations. If you are marrying in a religious ceremony, be sure to consult your minister, rabbi or priest. Some houses of worship do not allow the use of popular music during the ceremony.
The recessional
The recessional concludes the ceremony and sweeps the bride and groom back down the aisle. It is similar to the processional, but more upbeat and less solemn. The drama has ended and the moment is one of pure celebration. Many brides choose to exit to the traditional sounds of Mendelssohn's "Wedding March."
Your first dance as bride and groom is a romantic way for you to usher in the more casual, fun atmosphere of your reception. Follow these traditional dance tips for dancing the night away:
Following is the order of the traditional dance formality. However, many choose to open the dancing to all after the first dance.
- The first dance: For the bride and groom together, on the dance floor by themselves.
- The second dance: For the bride and groom with their bridal party. Parents may also join in on this dance.
- The third dance: For the bride and her father.
- The fourth dance: For both sets of parents, or the groom and his mother.
Try to limit the number of formal dances to a maximum of four, as your guests will be anxious to get on the dance floor. Brides ... don't forget to make time for another dance or two with your husband!
Remember to hire a seasoned professional for your entertainment. A top-notch entertainer will know how to "read the crowd" and motivate your guests.
