Dos and don'ts
- Do register at least six months before your wedding or, if that's not possible, as soon as you can. That way guests can choose gifts from your registry for pre-wedding events, such as an engagement party or shower.
- Don't try to register during your lunch hour (too short) or on a Saturday (too crowded). Weekday evenings are often the best times to get individualized attention.
- Do call each store ahead of time to see if you need an appointment. The registry process usually takes one to two hours per store, maybe longer, especially if you're registering for items from several departments. If you run out of time - or concentration - just schedule another appointment.
- Don't register with your mom, your sister or your best friend - only your fiance will do. Because the two of you will be sharing a home, it only makes sense that he be the one to accompany you to the store and share in the registry decisions. Assure him that, yes, real men do register.
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